Here are some learning of my life....
That no matter how good a person is....
Sometimes they can hurt you...
& because of this we must forgive....
it takes years to build trust & only seconds to destroy it...
we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change... the circumstances and the environment influence our lives, but we are the ones who are responsible for ourselves...
that you have to control your acts or the will control you...
that patience requires much practice...
that there are people who love us, but simply don't know how to show it...
that sometimes the person you think will hurt you and make you fall...
.....is instead one of the few who will help you get up...
that no matter in how many pieces your heart is broken...
the world doesn't stop to fix it...
maybe god wants us to meet all the wrong people first before meeting the right one...
so when we finally meet the right one we are grateful for that gift...
that when the door of happiness closes, another opens...
but often we look so long at the closed one... that we don't see what was open for us...
the best kind of friend is the kind in which you can sit on a porch and walk..
without saying a word, & when you leave it feels like...
it was the best conversation you ever had.....
its true we don't know what we have until we find it......
but its also true...., we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives...
it only takes a minute to offend someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone...
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone...
don't look for appearances, they can be deceiving...
don't go for wealth because even that can fade..
find someone who makes you smile, because at the last it only takes a smile to make a day better...
find what makes your heart smile...
there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you wish you can take them out of your dream and hug them for real...
dream what you want, go wherever you want to go... because you have only one life... and one chance to do the things you want to do...
the happiest people do not necessarily have the best of everything...they just make the best of everything that comes their way...
the best future is based on a forgotten past...because you can't go well in life until you let go off your past failures & heartache..
when you were born you were crying and everyone around you were smiling... live your life so that when you die, you are the one that is smiling...and everyone around you is crying....
